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The guy I like has hurt me once before and my mind says no don't go back but my heart says yes. what do I do?

Mentally I understand he may sleep with me and leave me again. However. the real fight is in my heart. I dont understand how he can make me turn into a blubblering fool with out even trying. I can't help thinking could I really be in love with him?


Thank you all for your answers! They really did help and if anybody wants the story from the beginning read my blog's about country boy blues.....its not totally upto date but I'll get it there.

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    nafiens - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by nafiens Feb 16th, 2013 at 1:38AM

    You can recycle glass, you can recycle plastic, you can even recycle paper, But, never, ever, ever recycle your ex,

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10 Answers to "The guy I like has hurt me once before and my mind says no don't go back but my heart says yes. what do I do?"

  1. bigpapa62 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by bigpapa62 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:00AM

    run far and fast

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  2. redmaple - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by redmaple Jul 31st, 2012 at 8:09PM

    You deserve someone better who will be true to you. These things pass. Often the ones you were incredibly passionate about can fade away in your memory when you are with someone new.

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  3. redmaple - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by redmaple Nov 18th, 2012 at 8:03AM

    yes it is. I had many crushes on girls when I was younger, and it was all so painful. then I discovered true love. a completely different experience,

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  4. alone27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by alone27 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:31AM

    everybody deserves a second chance & u deserve to be happy!..

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  5. skittlesbaby753 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by skittlesbaby753 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:42AM

    Thanks :)

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  6. alone27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by alone27 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:45AM

    ur very much welcome:)

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  7. AaronSousuke - 18-21 years old

    Posted by AaronSousuke Jul 30th, 2012 at 9:59AM

    How did he hurt you?

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  8. shenico85 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by shenico85 Oct 18th, 2012 at 9:31PM

    Look I'm going through the same thing. As women we tend to love harder than men. Follow your heart an no matter what anyone say you know how you feel an what you an this guy been through

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  9. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:39AM

    You may think he can turn you into a blubbering fool but he cant. That is you in your own mind thinking about things. That said, if you think it is totally senseless to get back together with him then don't. There are a lot of other perfectly good guys out there waiting to meet you that have not hurt you.

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  10. florabloom - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by florabloom Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:14AM

    Go with your mind this time! Its necessary.

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  11. Bitto69 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Bitto69 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:04AM

    Hearts are stupid, listen to your mind.

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  12. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Jul 30th, 2012 at 9:59AM

    It depends entirely on how he hurt you.

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  13. skittlesbaby753 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by skittlesbaby753 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:05AM

    It sounds so petty, but our first "date" was a party at his house and he got really drunk and slept together. he didnt talk to me for 3 months and hes just now starting to come around. But every time I see him I want him

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  14. bigpapa62 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by bigpapa62 Jul 30th, 2012 at 10:09AM

    so if you sleep with him again he will disappear for another 3 months

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