The guy I really like is moving to another state, should I tell him that I have feelings for him or keep it to myself?
11 Answers to "The guy I really like is moving to another state, should I tell him that I have feelings for him or keep it to myself?"
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Tell him!!! what do you have to lose? That way you dont have regrets about not trying later. who knows maybe something will come out of it (: good luck!
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well if you really like him, then you need to tell him :)
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Just do it
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I'm in a similar kind of situation myself, i think you should tell him how you feel before it is too late. Whats worse losing them forever or taking a chance and they will either stay with you or go knowing how you feel.
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Free yourself from Fear.....tell him~
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Need to talk if you think there is any chance at all he shares your feelings.
The only true regrets that last in life are things I didn't doLike (1)
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I was in the same position some years ago and kept quiet. I still wish I hadn't. It's easier said than done but if he's leaving anyway what is there to lose except 'face' if it goes wrong?
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I'm scared of loosing a good friend... If I tell him what if our friendship is ruined?
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it's one hell of a dilemma. again, it's so easy for me to say it but maybe your former friendship has now lost its innocence and needs to be allowed to deepen? If you keep your feelings to yourself would you still have an authentic friendship in the future? is he emotionally big enough to decline but remain a good friend? you say below that you're not sure you'll see him again after he moves. maybe that says you can afford to take a chance.
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Only you may answer.
If he wan't moving to another state, would you even be thinking of telling him?
It seems to me that you are only considering doing this because he is leaving.
Why didn't you do it sooner?
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I thought about it before... Then I'd push the thought out of my head because I thought I'd have more time... I feel like I need to now because who know's if I will ever see him again...
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If you don't you will spend the rest of your life wondering how it might have worked out.
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I would tell him because if you don't you may never get another chance with him.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Coyotedave611 Mar 4th, 2013 at 9:56AM
Tell him, you will kick yourself later if you don't.
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