The man I love really seems to be under heavy stress. Do you have tipps on how I could help him destress? sports?
4 Answers to "The man I love really seems to be under heavy stress. Do you have tipps on how I could help him destress? sports?"
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Just being there as a loved one helps. Understanding and caring for the issues that bring him the stress. Oh sex!!!! a double edge sword here. I mean from a males point of view yeah very nice way to destress BUT only if the stress hasn'h effected "performance" can lead to more worries about our lady not being happy and seeking "performance" elsewhere. OK OK you not and won't and never will but thats the thoughts of me a male who sufferes from stress a bit.
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Oh, thank you for mentioning that. He surely can become jealous. Thanks for your advice :)
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I guess you have heard how dogs and cats can de-stress a person. Just touching him and bring tea or a warm snuggle. A brisk walk and look at the world around him. Listen de stresses. Repeat what he says so he knows you are listening. Mostly people just need to spue out stuff and need not real response.
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You are so right - I think it will do very well when I show him that I am listening and that there is no need to explain himself like he has to around other people. Thank you :) Well put!
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You could lighten up- maybe a joke or 2 could help
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Oh yeah, laughing is great. Part of plan! :) Thank you for your help
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Posted by milander Apr 9th, 2012 at 12:54AM
Be sexy available for him to be blunt, if he chooses to act on it fine, if not no worries. Try to keep things that usually might stress him on a back burner, make sure he gets enough sleep or rest and is eating right. Gentle exercise, swimming or even a sauna works well too. Sorry if the advice sounds a bit too "woman must look after her man" I'm not sure how else to phrase it and that's not my intention. Basically don't push him but provide opportunities for him to help himself and keep potential stresses out of his minds eye.
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Reply by stairwaytohegel Apr 9th, 2012 at 10:18AM
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