Are you talking about the Tin Man's girlfriend, Magnetic Ferrite? It is merely a matter of the molecules aligning properly.
It`s not a male or female thing.
Every human body expresses a magnetic field.
Heard the saying "opposits attract".........where do you think that comes from?
You seek what you think you do not have.
No you have this incorrect. It is the women that are attracted to this guy thing.