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Things I have Noticed with GF?

Always talks about other people
Never acknowledges what I express about my feelings.
Changes subject to whatever she feels like before we complete the one I am speaking about.
She has so many other kind things about her,But everything is all about her.. walks around naked most of the time at night to sleep or around the house We can come home and I am still doing things and next thing you know she is in the bed asleep.
Will never pet my little dog who loves her and stay close to her.
Never calls me by my name? Will not allow a kiss in public.
Never says things like wow what a beautiful day. Life is great. Just got back from 2 days with her and I am drained. She will not openly discuss any of these issues. And she is already asking me if like the area where she lives. If I understood all the issues I can handle her better.

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She talks about other people to cover her insecurities about herself.

Sounds like she has some real personal perception problems. What's that term? Cognative distortions?

Give her some room. Lower your expectations for the short term. Let your (as in vouse) relationship develope. Be patient.

OR

Move on to a person that will develope and grow as part of a relationship faster.

Posted 5 months ago

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Duparc	Posted Jun 21st, 2009 at 4:51PM Sounds as if she may be a depressive or suffered severe trauma in her life. One can live with with such people but they are challenging and demanding and consequently can drain your energy. It takes a lot of understanding to be able to cope with them. It may be found that types like this have nothing positive to say and when in their company on a constant basis the negativity can wear one down so be thoughtful and selfish for yourself and your own happiness. Rated: +4Vote for this!
atasteforsufferin g	Posted Jun 21st, 2009 at 8:07AM it sounds like your miserable maybe it's time to get a new gf that pets your dogs and doesn't talk about other people and listens to your feeling etc. life is to short to be in a an unhappy relationship Rated: +4Vote for this!
marshfieldjman	Posted Jun 21st, 2009 at 8:07AM some advice dump her you sound like your miserable in this ****** relationship Rated: +2Vote for this!
MegJgeM	Posted Jun 21st, 2009 at 8:38AM Selfish Bitty!!!! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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