Tips on flirting with my husband to keep the love alive?

Have a "Hugs Corner" in the house...and escape there for a quick hug from time to time :-)

Surprise him with:

- Sexy Lingerie
- Foot, Scalp or Back Massages
- A date that revolves around what he likes (sporting event, concert, dinner at his favourite restaurant, etc...)
- New sexual positions or creating his fantasies
- Joining him in the shower (when he isn't running late)
- Compliments, Compliments, Compliments
- Appreciation, Appreciation, Appreciation

The list can go on and on.

Touch him, stroke him, scratch his back, however fleetingly, if you pass him close by as you each go about the day. Sometimes, in casual exchanges, stand very close to him and stare at his mouth as he speaks. Kiss what you've been staring at when he finishes saying what's been said. While sitting beside him in the car, as he drives, run your fingers through his hair. In other words, don't assume he knows how you feel, show him.

Sensual surprises. Whatever and however you go about them. Make them a surprise, and make them sensual. Researching erotic massage is worth it. Thai Bodywork is brilliant for the couple that has drifted a little and is trying to regain Contact. If you get a couple of books on it, it will inspire you!

You can make one night the turn around moment for you both - get the setting right, the timing right, the research right (erotic massage is the key word), the lingerie, the scents. Basically, attack all 5 senses at once, then throw in slow, gentle kindness and all the memories of why you love him as you touch him.

ONE night can turn it all around. Then make sure you have time for one another - book it off if you have to, when the tv goes off, and if you do nothing but light a candle and stare at each other through the flame while you get your breathing syncchronised, it will be magic.

You've taken the most important step - you've WANTED to keep it alive.

Do something unexpected, ***** for him, buy a vibrator, buy a position book, buy **** and watch it together. Do something that will shock him and show him how much you're still into him. Then just let your hormones take over like when you were a teenager. Forget about inhibitions.