Pick something up and break it dear it will be alright we are all here for you!
Do you believe in being in love? Love is far pass the ups, downs, moments of **** it and grandeur.
No decision should be made out of emotional turmoil. Right now you sound a bit annoyed or frustrated.
If you are taking a break away from him, the make sure he cannot get you by phone and doesn't know where you are staying.
Take a break. Find a cheap hotel, book a night. Since you have kids, take them (otherwise, he can, if the relationship goes totally south, claim that you abandoned them). Just one night. Leave a message, telling him so, and that you will be fine. You just need a night to think, and he needs to trust you, and let you have this.
you should understand what he is thinking. when my ex said lets take a sort break. my mind battled over what to do. if you give her space maybe she wont want to come back. and at the same time if i push to hard i may push her away. just talk to him and reausser him that you come back to him. its probably eating him alive. just talk to him.
leave..stay at a friends or family
Take a vacation with out him don't say ish just go pay cash so u don't leave a paper trail
A break in your marriage? I probably would also behave like your husband. Either that, or see an attorney and make it legal.