Tues. is my MM's 25th anniversary. He says that I dont have anything to worry about; how do I get through that day?
A few details...we have been together for about six months, he and his wife have not had sexual relations in 15 years (except about 7 years ago for a total of 3-4 times in a one month span), he is absoutly wonderful to me and very attentive (on a trip with her he is contantaly in contact...we chat nightly and on and on and on... I am not fearful of them "sleeping" together...He has never cheated on her before and the guilt kills both of us. Of course I want him to leave and he wants to be with me...but she is a good person (we have met) and he has feelings...just not "marriage love" feelings. Just want to get through this day...he isn't worried...just me.
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Posted by LifesCraziness Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:33PM
Oh geesh! Holy Hell!
what do you want? sympathy?
you are having an affair with a dofus of a man... wait! He's NOT a Man! Any decent MAN would NOT have affairs!! they would do what is right and divorce their spouse then find someone new.
The guilt would KILL you? I guess it doesn't KILL you cuz you are on here asking this question!!! I have no sympathy for you I only have it for His poor wife!!
And your comment of "he isn't worried.." Of course he isn't worried... he has a wife to clean his house and wash his clothes and fix his meals and he has you for his booty call. Of course he isn't worried. He has it made!! OVey!
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Reply by DarknessCalls Jun 24th, 2011 at 5:24PM
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Reply by LifesCraziness Jun 24th, 2011 at 5:27PM
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Posted by bronagh2 Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:34PM
He's playing you both, having his cake and eating it....why is he still with his wife?
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Posted by hutre Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:37PM
You are not the first person he's cheated on her with, and he and his wife have slept together. He's lying to you.
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Reply by wilsonk Jun 25th, 2011 at 5:14PM
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Reply by hutre Jun 25th, 2011 at 5:40PM
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Posted by dreamcat22 Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:37PM
The first thing you need to do is get rid of this married man and find someone of your own. He isn't going to leave his wife for you if he is still taking trips with her and celebrating their anniversary together. Of course he isn't worried. Right now he feels he has the best of both worlds, a loving wife at home and you on the side at his beck and call. You deserve better than that and so does his wife. Besides if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you and he probably already is cheating on you with his wife he just isn't man enough to admit it because that might make you have second thoughts about your relationship with him.
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Reply by wilsonk Jun 25th, 2011 at 5:15PM
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Posted by deltadon Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:39PM
heartache & a waste of time.......sorry
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Posted by wilsonk Jun 25th, 2011 at 5:32PM
It depends on where you see the relationship going.
If you are invited to the anniversary celebrations you should try not to go. Fake illness or discover another appointment.
If you do go you should hope the celebrations are outside in which case you should wear your sunglasses. Your eyes tell a different story to the one that comes out of your mouth! With your sunglasses on nobody will see the story your eyes are telling.
Longer term you need to decide what you want from this relationship and explain that to him. Does he want the same thing? If he does you need to talk about what steps you're both going to take to get there.
WK
http://diariesofanadulterer.blogspot.com/
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Posted by angelsamongus Jun 25th, 2011 at 2:51PM
Why doesn't anyone say what is really going on ?
ADULTERY !!!!
What on earth happen to morals or one of the Ten Commandment s ?
Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery.......
Sorry......NO SYMPATHY here.......
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Reply by wilsonk Jun 25th, 2011 at 5:25PM
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Posted by plumberlover Jun 24th, 2011 at 9:02PM
I'm in the same boat, however my MM has arranged a 4 days special surprise trip for his wife and won't discuss the details with me either. I think it upsets me more that he is hiding details from me rather than just telling me. What's the purpose of not telling me ???? He just says he doesn't want to upset me. What the heck?? Seriously ???? I know my MM loves his wife and never plans on leaving her. That will never be an issue for me. I just find it strange that he is being so secretive about this trip. So I'll have no contact and no idea where he is....I have no idea how I'm going to handle the four days, I just figure I'll keep as busy as possible. All I can do. I know I'll always be second fiddle in this relationship. But I chose this, so guess I have no real right to complain....doesn't make it hurt any less.
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Reply by hairbandcherry Jun 24th, 2011 at 10:04PM
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