Yes, this is why I always keep my judgements gto myself. I judge them inwardly, keep my distance and when I'm proven wrong I'm thankful I didn't cost myself the aquaintence of an amazing person.
Not in the last 30 yrs or so I'd say...I let people be who they wanna be, I been "crapped-on" by a quite a few real gems, though!...hasn't really mattered, much...
i try not to judge.
Nope. I've held really positive expectations of someone only to have those expectations burned, and then flushed down a toilet because they were actually shallow and mean.