WTF? ! Friendship advice tell me what you think please.
I make friend angry. Friend tells me to stop calling, stop texting, and leave him alone. I do as requested and don't hear from him again. My super brain power tells me we are no longer friends. Almost a month later, I get an invitation to be a connection from him on LinkedIn. I send a message on LinkedIn saying I'm confused but pleased by the invite and wishing him a happy new year. Got no response.
WTF guys???
8 Answers to "WTF? ! Friendship advice tell me what you think please."
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I wouldn't worry about it, because the minute a friend would tell me to cut off all contact and then vanish for a month, that "friend" would be finished in my mind. If he can flake out on you once, he can flake out on you again. Either decline or ignore his invitation and move on.
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Just say its ur life he cnt boss u about
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no one would want to be your friend anyways
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depends on what happened, I once punched a friend in his jaw out of anger, because him and his cousin were toying with me. Within the same day we were cool again. Probably even because he tried kicken me in the nads. Even though we dont talk anymore, and I havent seen him in forever, but don't let undermind what I just said.
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I have no idea what to tell you. It's tough first of all to try to determine what anyone is thinking, or what's going through any one individual's mind, but even more difficult when it is the opposite sex. The dynamics are foreign to one another. I think you need to just keep busy, don't blame yourself for his actions, and realize that some people are confused and it's not your responsibility to sort it out. Further, you should not blame yourself. Keep your head held high and your chin up. :)
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...but don't trip up over anything in the process! XDLike (1)
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Sounds like he is just playing the field and you are not high up enough on the food chain to keep his interest. F--k em he aint worth getting upset about.
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Move on my friend. If he cares he'll contact you
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Posted by aaaaarrrgggh 1 Jan 8th, 2012 at 8:36PM
you were probably in his email contacts list. linkedIn just takes all your contacts and invites them. Your friend probably didn't realize you were included, or didn't care.
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Reply by deadant7 Jan 8th, 2012 at 8:38PM
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