i know this was two months ago but i still feel the need for my input incase someone else googles a question like this and sees the input .
Do not put your life on hold for someone you "love" i put love that way because you may love this person but anywhere down the line it can end up not working out. trust me i put my life on hold for someone i loved and all they did was not appreciate my sacrifice and cheat and lie to my damn face. PUT YOUR LIFE AND YOUR CAREER FIRST. I am joining the service now that all my bullshit is over with this *****.
Joining the Air Force doesn't stop you from waiting for him... you'll need a decent job no matter what choices you make concerning your love life.
join the air force first.