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I haven't talked to my bf since this morning, so I sent a text message this afternoon, and in the evening, called twice. Be honest... Did I cross into the stalker zone today? Just kinda feel like I did too much... Lol
OblitusAuri OblitusAuri 18-21, F 18 Answers Apr 11, 2012

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Honestly? Who cares if you are clingy or annoying? You are feeling either ignored or unappreciated and you should never moderate YOUR feelings to avoid HIS irritation.

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How did you know... *_*

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^ smart.

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I would have to agree with you... That, or you've rigged my house with cameras. Haha

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Dammit. The ruse is up! Did he ever get back to you?

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no, but stop now.

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Best^

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Lol, believe me, I planned on doing just that. :)

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good, i had a hard time not texting a guy i liked but i did it!! lol

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Thank you, srslydoomed

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I'm one of those people that doesn't like to pick up the phone instantly when someone calls, especially if I'm involved in some project or hanging out with people. My ex used to get furious about that, and would call me and text me at odd hours all the time, and wonder why I didn't do the same. <br />
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So, speaking from that experience, you're fine. Let the ball roll in his court for a little bit before you come over and kick it again, though! If he's one of my kind, he'll sometimes need a chance to miss you. Or if he's REALLY one of my kind, he might be up to something you'll appreciate giving him the time to work on!

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no. dont worry. what you did was sweet. if he's a nice guy, he'll appreciate it. but ... i would give it a rest and wait for him to contact you back next.

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From what I've been reading, it doesn't sound like your texti.g is what might be "wrong" in the relationship. Clinging might be the word if you stick with someone who isn't treating you right though.

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True... I'll weigh that advice heavily, justmeonline. Thank you for the honesty. :)

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lol nah not yet. prolly. unless u started yelling at him for not answering immediately, and then accused him of atrocities

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No and if he respects you he is okay with it,<br />
some guys do that too. It just means you care.<br />
Stop worrying, you have not crossed any line,<br />
its not like you are stalking him. Stop stressing.

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No, if you are his girl-friend, then you have the "passport" to do that. If you were just friends, then you probably would have crossed the line and been annoying, but when it's boyfriend/girlfriend, it's different. But if he's not replying, always think the best. He might be busy at work or his phone is flat, or he doesn't have it with him, or he doesn't have credit! :-) These were things I usually told myself when I didn't hear back, and it was usually the first reason. And hey, if you have a healthy relationship with your boyfriend, then he will love you even more that you're not annoyed with him for him not getting back to you. Give him time and give him trust. Those two go a long way. And just keep on loving him. :-) And if he was annoyed, then maybe back off. True love won't be annoyed with you for trying to keep up communication! :-)

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If your bf spent more time with you, you wouldn't have to be so psycho with him. Are we talking about a long distance relationship here?<br />
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If he loved you, he'd be calling you, right?

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No he should give you the attention you want, unless he was at work or studying. :-)

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Yes... Yes you did. He knew you were tring to contact him the 1st, 2nd, 3rd... now common 4th time? He knows, he hasn't forgot! Being too clingy drives men away quick! And I would say that anyone who says it's okay are clingy too....

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Well there wasn't a 4th time lol. One text and two calls. But what would you suggest instead?

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Just wait, if he wants to talk he'll call you. BTW I was "one of the guys" and my crew would label ya as a Psycho B!tch. But yea you said four times "I sent a text message this afternoon, and in the evening, called twice"

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Even though I've never done it before? Jeez, I didn't know guys got that upset about it. But no lol, 1 text + 2 calls = 3 attempts. Maybe you got confused b/c I said we talked earlier... But thanks for the advice. :)

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That's cute if you do it every once a while but not on a regular basis.

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No lol, I've never done it before, that's why I'm worried.

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You have by no means crossed any line, But your question must stem from a negative past experience.

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Not really lol, he's the only guy I've ever dated... And he's never complained. *Shrugs*

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stop stop stop. have some self-respect.

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Please be joking... Lol. I didn't take it too far did I? D:

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oh, i just re-read your post. i was assuming you had a fight and "weren't speaking". if not, i guess it depends on your usual frequency. but by now i'm sure he knows you called and he'll get back to you when he can ;)

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No.... just a bit clingy. Maybe, possibly ....no.

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Ugh, you're confusing me! D: lol

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Lol let me clarify this for you. No! You're.just FINE!

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