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TheBlessedOne TheBlessedOne 46-50, F 11 Answers Jul 13, 2013 in Intimacy

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Yes, of course! I may not cry while being held, but I'd be there for anyone who needs a big old hug... :-)

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That is always helpful.

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no, i would feel awkward about it since my parents never did that

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Mine did not me either.

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A long time ago. I am too emotionally numb now so I rarely cry and when I mean rarely as in a few times a year....if. I don't even know if it even counts as crying because once I feel it coming on I can make it stop.

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I like to cry, it makes me feel alive. Why are you numb?

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Two reasons. One is from excessive severe trauma desensitizing me and the second reason is because if I am emotionally detached I have more clarity on situations.

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I know about trauma numbness. I had that for years myself. It took me until age 48. If you want help healing the trauma I am here for you. I went through hell as a child and healing it was hard.

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..yeahhh..

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It would be nice.

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yeah, when i cry, i am in freaking wantin to cuddle mode ahahaha

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Yes me too. But I have none to cuddle.

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i may be younger than u..but i help u when ya need it!

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ohh you made my day. Thank you so much. YOu put the biggest smile on my face ever. I reach out to help people all that the time just like you did me. You are the first one that reached back to me. That is the greatest give you could ever give me. I was wondering if even one person would reach out to me and you did.

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awe thank you! i am the kind of girl who loves to help! u can mail me if u ever just wanna buddie to chat with ahaha

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I can see you are a rare person. It is so nice to see others that are willing to help. We need lots of people like you in this world.

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awe shucks! ahaha. message me when ever..ttyl

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Thank you. I will do that.

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ur welcome

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not personally, but have held someone in total silence while they cried, didn't have a clue what was wrong. A friend of mine came to where I then lived and never spoke once. the only furniture I had at the time was abed, and I sat her on there and put my arm round her while she sobbed. she later fell asleep in my arms. in the morning she simply got up, gave me a hug and left. very odd.

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She just needed to cry. I wish I knew someone I could do that with right now.

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no idea, she never told me. even odder.. we we'rent really close as friends, I psose I must have been the one who lived closest or something. I'd actually forgotten about that until I saw your Q, n have to admit I cannot remember her name. which is gonna annoy me all night now lol.

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It was a nice thing you did for her.

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have done very similar for many of my fem friends/lovers.
I do this thing where I get some pillows or a quilt, n let them beat the F out of it while I hold it. no idea where I got the idea from, but as a stress buster it is excellent. have only suffered once because of it, n that was because of a chest/heart condition and I should have been more careful lol.
I'm starting to wonder if I am the only person ever to have thought of this.

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What a sweet thing to do for them. That is helping them heal.

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providing u don't end up with some Scottish nurse cranking your heart with her fist, yes, lol

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So true. That would not be good.

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several times, but i never received that comfort from anyone.

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Me either. I am alone if this cruel world.

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Yeah...

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YES.

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