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So, I've already broke up, but thing is, I really like this other guy, whose name is Oakley. He's really cute, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. Anyhow, my ex is coming over with his family over Christmas, and I want Oakley as my boyfriend by then. Making my ex jealous would be awesome. Anyhow, I'm terrible at flirting, and I'm worried about flirting, and he thinks its weird if he happens not to like me.... Help?
Aeroflaire Aeroflaire 13-15, F 10 Answers Nov 5, 2012 in Crushes & Obsessions

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You had me until you said you wanted to have Oakley by Christmas so you can make your ex jealous. Then you lost me.



I was going to say that flirting isn't necessary, just be friendly and your own sweet self, but you aren't talking about something sweet here, you are talking about using Oakley to make your ex jealous. Don't use someone you like, to hurt someone else. It will backfire and you will be the one who gets hurt, in the end.

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....Uhhh anyway. I do REALLY like this guy, but it would be kinda funny to see my ex jealous, since, he's the one who broke up with me.

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What if he doesn't get jealous? What if he just doesn't care?

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...oh we'll I guess. But he has been giving me cow eyes lately.

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:) Oh, how I miss being a teenager. LOL

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xD

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1. Mystery, all the famous seductresses use mystery

2. Always decline the first date. Say something stupid and cheesy, so he knows you're lying. You want to seem like you're not interested

3. Don't reply to his text messages. Well, just a few

4. Don't, NEVER, EVER BE CLINGY. Uugghh, you have no idea, clinginess is the biggest turn off for guys.

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Ooh I like it

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Yeah but make sure you know what you're doing. You have to play these with confidence. If you don't project an aura of confidence, he'll laugh in your face, because you'll look like an idiot. Make sure you know what you're doing..., you could really start trouble. Been there, done that. It doesn't end well.

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Lol okay ill try. I hope I dun look stupid :o

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Which is why you must practice in the mirror everyday. Play off seductive faces. You'll laugh at yourself in the beginning, because you'll look like a freak. But you're better looking like a freak to yourself, than to Oakley. Different body postures as well. Practice in the mirror everyday. Don't forget to study photos of seductive women. For example. My albulm. I have a photo, of a girl in a mask eating a strawberry. She looks seductive. Study her face, see if you can copy it.

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Hmmm....okay. It's worth a try. How bout I practice now? Rawr XD

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Awesome! :), aaww. Look at me. Training my minions. Get to it.

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XD I did it in the mirror, and I did laughXD I looked so retarded!

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hmm, exactly. Don't try to hard. Relax your face muscles, and don't squint your eyes. You need to relax. Don't walk, glide. Don't be stiff. Look fragile, elongated, feminine.

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Glide...hmmm, I've never been good at being famine, probably cuz I hang with guys all the time... But I can try to get that out of my system and glide and be elegant, but keep my strength....hmmm..*looks up ways to glide*

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:)

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Lol it's hard. But I can do it. I've found I look more mysterious doing this "glide"

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Oh you have now? Well isn't that good. Find the good angle for your face. I've found my profile (the side of my face), is just the worst for me. So when ever I want to impress, I never look onto the side. Because he'll see the side of my face. Which for me is a negative. Eye contact, its all in the eyes. Hair down is sexy, but a messy bun is totally hot AND the new fashion!

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Lol I like having my hair down, and my eyes, I've been told, are my best feature of my face

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oh good! Work your BEST features :)

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I looked up good makeup tips for green eyes yesterday, I found that shades of green clothes, and/or makeup works, and shades of purple makeup also look nice for green eyes.

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Karma is a bi tch so you better watch what you put out there, it will come back and bite you.

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I think you will have bad relationships until you understand what you wrote.

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Lol I don't believe in superstitions. Nice try though

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Nothing superstitious at all. Just straight psychology. Go figure.

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I's advise you to forget trying to get one guy as a boyfriend in order to make another guy jealous. Go for the new guy because you like him for himself. Then, flirting with him will be natural. Make a little comment to him in a lighthearted way. See how he responds and take it from there. The other person is in your rear view mirror.

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You are a perfect example of why kids should not date till at least 16.

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i want the girl next door and the other girl next to that be mine by tomorrow.

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Lol. You know I'm cheering for you! Go get her!

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x} kidding, im actually the loyal kind. but thanks my dear

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that's childish

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I fun care XD

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Ugh dun care. Stupid auto correct

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If you like him then you just have to tell him, the only way you will know is to ask if he feels the same about you. Don't do it just to make your ex jealous though.

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Well, not only to make my ex jealous, also to get Oakley. He is...REALLY, REALLY hot:)

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Go for it then :)

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Lol k. Only prob is if I tell him, and I was wrong about him liking me, I would look stupid though wouldn't I? Or is there a way to tell him without looking like an idiot afterwards

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you won't look stupid, just be upfront and say I hope this doesn't sound crazy or anything but I really like you and was wondering if you felt the same.

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Okay...eep I'm scared but i'll go for it.

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who cares if he likes you or not? i mean...if the guy is a keeper and a long term partner he wont care if you can flirt or not he will just like you for who you are..

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I want him to be my boyfriend by Christmas though, just so I can make him jealous.... And get him a prezie XD

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