We all were betrayed or hurt someone at some point in our lives, How do you get over the bitterness and resentments?
7 Answers to "We all were betrayed or hurt someone at some point in our lives, How do you get over the bitterness and resentments?"
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If you find out,let me knowi haven't learned how
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I will pause myself for a while. Re-evulate my current condition and ability. Explore their weakness. Exploit it and finish them. I will not let some people get out alive.
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Revenge.
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i advised you not to do any of this if you aren't mean enough. otherwise, you are going to put yourself in deep trouble. im one if the victim of my own plan.
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Accept that they're not meant to be in our lives and move on from them. Allow yourself to forgive them and don't be bitter. The only person you hurt when you're bitter, is yourself.
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yes its like drinking pioson and expecting the other person to die.
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Yes it is. You don't even have to tell the person you forgive them. Just say it to yourself and pity them for being so inadequate, for feeling the need to hurt others, in order to feel better about themselves.
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Visualization helps. Picture the bitterness and resentment as anchors to which you are tied. Cut the ropes and drift away from it. It doesn't mean it will disappear, but you don't have to remain tethered to it. Moving on means first letting go.
And remember that energy only changes forms, it's not limitless. The energy you fed that bitterness and resentment can be invested in other things, so try to put your attention and your interest elsewhere. Help other people, or animals. It really does make a difference.Like (1)
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thats good advice but its not so simple,its like telling and anorexia person to start eating. how do you let it go?
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I would never, ever tell anyone it is so simple. I can only remind you that it takes energy to even feel bitterness and resentment, and as a human being you only have so much energy to go around. Hopefully there are other things in your life or experiences or people or interests you can add to your life to try and start to displace some of the bitterness and resentment. Good luck.
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(((click)))
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I moved back to my hometown.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by abefroman84 Dec 12th, 2012 at 10:04AM
Reese PB cups and Old Milwaukee beer
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