You both suck?
It sounds like you're asking if timing clears the slate. You both cheated. There's a reason for it. Either you work on moving on, or you just call it quits.
Cheating is one of the sickest thing that you can do when you're in a relationship. That's my thought on that. What kind of relationship is that?
It's not cheating if you weren't together.
I'm sure that it did feel bad for the both of you since there were obviously still feelings involved. However, you were broken up and you can't let yourself hold that over him, same goes for him, it wouldn't be enjoyable. That's good that you were able to talk and get your feelings out. All you can do is move forward from it and leave it where it belongs, in the past.
Sounds like a regular clusterf**k.
And why are you still together...?
He should stand up like a man. Get on his feet... Hope he didn't expect you to support him.
Good job, Left1987. Best wishes to you.
Who cheated first? Why did he hold that info? I'd just ask him.