We had s.e.x. but he said he doesn't have "solid feelings" for me?

Asked By: littleCherrie 18-21, F 2 months ago

I was a virgin and he pressured me into having s.e.x with him. For a while we went without talking because I was mad at him for how he treated me. When we finally did talk things out he said, "I don't want you to think I have solid feelings for you." What does that mean? Like I know he doesn't like me, but he also wanted to have s.e.x. He won't hookup with me anymore because he knows he hurt me and he doesn't want to hurt me again. Sometimes I just think it's because I am unattractive though. But really, I am not as thin as the other girls he likes and he says he always only saw me as a friend. What did he mean when he said that and what is going through his head?

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Posted by primnproper Mar 11th, 2013 at 8:19AM

Hunni you need to let it go and move on,you don't need people like that in your life..

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Posted by initializer Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:22AM

human nature

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Reply by littleCherrie Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:24AM

how so?
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Reply by initializer Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:29AM

look......... to be straight......... that assholeee was just want to have sexxx with you , now that he got what he's upto you don't meant to him anymore..... I know this will hurt you but that's truth and you must show him where he stands !!!
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Posted by SilenceEvermore Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:17AM

He had séx with you. Goal accomplished. Sever ties and continue to feed on different prey.

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Posted by Lavender007 Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:14AM

Honestly,it sounds as if he used you for s**.If a guy truly cares about you he will not pressure you into it.Him saying he doesn't have solid feelings for you also says a lot....that is his way of saying he doesn't like you that seriously...you don't mention how he treated you for you to be mad at him.

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Reply by littleCherrie Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:21AM

afterwards he kicked me out of his room and made me walk back at 5am but i wanted him to hold me and fall asleep with me instead. i told him i didn't want to have sex and i was drunk but he convinced me to do it with him and he knew i was a virgin.
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Reply by Lavender007 Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:24AM

I am sorry to hear this,yes he took advantage of you.Avoid him altogether.He is not a gentleman and not worth your time.
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Posted by LadyGypsy Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:13AM

He is a player.
You were a physical release for him.
Its sad that your first time out ended this way.

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Posted by ianlarc Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:12AM

He used you for sex, he plans to keep using you for sex, like everygirl this age range you gave yourself to a douche, congrats!

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Posted by ravin800624 Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:12AM

go though your life.

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Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:11AM

Simply put,he is a user and that is what he did to you.

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Posted by MisterManners Mar 11th, 2013 at 7:11AM

Guys want to have sex without emotional baggage? No surprise here.

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