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We just met two weeks ago, he is already asking for money, what is he up to?

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don't bother with him.. he's just using u.. believe me.. i've seen it all.. if i didn't happen to me then it happend to one of my friends, my sister or my mom.. i just helped one of my friends get rid of this loser.. she was dumb for getting with him in the first place because he had a girlfriend already n she knew.. they only knew eachother for about a month n he was always asking for money.. or it was " baby i need my phone bill paid.." or "baby i need this..i need that" he then left this girlfriend for my friend but only stayed with her for another month n then went on the to next one.. in my opion.. u don't need a guy who askes for money anyway.. u need someone who can take care of u.. n if they are asking u for money when he's only known u for 2 weeks.. then he's up to no good n he is no good.. so get rid of him asap!
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 5:48AM
What is he up to? Try this. Read your question over a few times slowly. Read it aloud. Record yourself reading it aloud and play it back a few dozen times. I suspect the answer will become as obvious to you at some point as it is to any stranger reading those words.

BTW - much more interesting question - why do you even have to ask? What could possibly be the origin of any tiny ounce of uncertainty in you about this?

Think about it. Solve that riddle and you'll never have to ask this question again about any other "he".
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 6:56AM
Say no and see if he sticks around!!
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:02AM
No good. Two weeks...? I'd be checking him out a bit more closely in terms of the kinds of friends or relations he has, how he's doing at work, whether he likes or hates his job, and how many friends he has - all clues as to whether this would be someone to spend more time with or not.
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 1:58AM
sounds like he's sizing you up, see he much he can take you for.
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 1:59AM
well it's simple, you just met two weeks ago, and he is already asking for money, that's what he's up to.

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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 1:59AM
suppose it depends on how much he asked for...if he asked for a dollar to buy some lollies then nothing...if he asked for a hundred dollars and wouldn't even tell you why, i'd be asking him some questions!
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:04AM
he is up to no good. lose the guy and fast!
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:07AM
he's broke *** and jus looking for a woman to support him. maybe I'm too much into the gender roles stereotype but I don't think a man should ask a woman for money at any point unless a relationship has been established for a real long time and it's an emergency situation but even then I doubt any self respecting man would do that in the first place
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:14AM
I'm surprised that you even have to ask!

He doesn't want you specifically, he wants a source of MONEY that he doesn't have to work hard for... is my guess.

Of course, that's being judgemental - I don't know anything about him; but I would be VERY wary about that!
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:15AM
If you gave it to him he's already accomplished his goal. Don't let him use you. No one asks for money or anything else two weeks after they met you unless they are trying to take advantage of you and they think that you are emotionally attached and won't tell them no. Next will come abuses.
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:18AM
That long huh? I guess he's a bit of a slow learner....

Seriously, move on. Dump his arse before it escalates....
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 2:20AM
I agree that two weeks seems a bit soon to be borrowing money. It depends on how much - and what the circumstances are of course...but you should know yourself what he is up to...if you feel uncomfortable with it then say no.
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 4:11AM
Get rid of the scrub
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 5:01AM
What he's up to is this: he is using you for money so he doesnt have to go out and work for it himself, he must see you as an easy and gullible target. I think a male asking a female for money is the most unattractive kind of man that exists. Run as fast as you can, you can do better than a guy like him.
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 5:02AM
men should never ask for money from a woman
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Posted Sep 10th, 2009 at 5:49AM
He is up to fleecing you
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