He does not want to give up his comfort zone, just incase he changes his mind! Or he is happy to keep you on a string while he enjoys the joys of a single life...
He is passive aggressive.
So true. It's why I didn't file sooner.
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Depends what country you live in. I Australia you can't apply for divorce until 12 months after a final separation.
Maybe the economy has him thinking twice...cheaper to keep her is true. I left my wife of 20 years and paid dearly. I was gone for a year before I filed, it was a time where I was trying to figure some things out. She was too and after a year I realized that she wasn't gonna make the move to file, so I did.
same question to YOU !! why havent YOU filed...
Control. He doesn't want to be "with" you but still wants you so that no man can have you cuz you're still technically married. That could be why.
He will come back after he is finished cheating on you...you either can play too, divorce him, or be good and wait it out......more likely he is tryingn to see if there is anyone better and if there is not. He will come back begging
Separation is free, divorce is expensive.
One's own emotions can be difficult to understand, and the fact is that because of human nature we truly cannot appreciate something until it is no longer there for us to see how important it was in our lives.<br />
Because of my own personal experience in matters of love, having been withthe same woman for 18 years, married for 13, and only recently seperated, I can say this: now that he is "out" he may have very well realised the importance you had in his life but lacks the confidence, the courage, the means to express this to you in the hopes of making amends and seeing you back together.<br />
In short he may have come to see just how much you mean to him and he is scared that he has broken the relationship beyond repair. If you care for him in the slightest, talk to him and give him a chance to express himself, and maybe even make amends.
Cost, time to do it, more important things to do... a slim chance he might not really want it. + many other that do not come straight to me. I know these are real possibilities because I am in a similar situation (We had separate rooms for the past 1,5 years-2years)
I just wanted to ask the girl who used a spell caster to bring you and your husband back together how much he charged you? I emailed him but he wants a lot of money? Is this real or not ?