Was three months enough to decide what you wanted to do, is this where you really wanna be? If so....good luck with it but be a bit careful please, don't let someone hurt you twice.
keep him kicked to kerb ... find a new man your notice the difference with the new bloke and you think and say to your self why have i wasted so much time with him
only you know the answer...
dont try again! ive been with a guy for a total of 3 years, and we broke up several times inbetween. we tried to make it work but everytime in the end it didn't! i realized there was no point in trying again when we both knew it wasn't gonna end up working anyways. we wished eachother the best of luck in life and still talk to eachother in times of need. i am happier than i ever was.
What is the reason? Did his new lady dump him? He has already had one affair so if you get back with him can you honestly trust him? If you do get back together I wish you the best of luck but if I were in your position I don't think I would want to be constantly wondering when the next affair was going to happen and go through the heartache.
What are you going to do?
Need more info, who was it that called it off? Was there only 1 reason, many? Can't answer without knowing a few details.
This does not sound like a great idea.
not enough information....but over the age of thirty, you should probably think twice.
"old enough to know better"
"experience is the best teacher"
"been there, done that"
i would wonder what the underlying issue is before i answer
do you love him
then try again. you already have a good idea of what will happen, so there will be no surprises, and you might come up with a novel solution.
Leopards do not change their spots. You have to figure out if you can put up with those spots or not