What about this one?

I second summerwind.

It sounds like he was projecting his personality on to you in calling you a "player".

Rape is about control. Someone who wants control of you is not going to let you walk away peacefully.

It sounds like he is mentally ill. Don't make more out of his sickness than what it is.

love at first rape..

You need to get help for yourself. Someone who makes a threat on your life is not to be taken lightly.

No these are some serious questions, never mind the negative things that some people say on here, I too have suffered much from peoples insults to injury since my rape and I just want to scream! I cannot believe how insensitive people can be! I too asked it that was rape I asked God and between me and God it definately is but according to the law it wasn't! They told me to my face that it was consentual!!!! I might have half asleep said yeah you can sleep wherever but I am aware that I said but do not touch me! He waited until I was asleep before he penetrated me! I said my husbands name and No!!!!!!!! He was very rough but I resisted and covered my face behind my hands wishing that it would just go away I should have screamed but I wanted to go on with my life as if nothing had ever happened. But I did the right thing and went to the police, but after all was said and done they dropped the charges based on their false information and they said because of my history!!!! I was raped when I was 15 and I was too afraid to go to court and I told the crown procecutor that I had lied even when I didn't just to get out of facing the truama of the courtroom! I hate that he got off so easy but I am relieved that I don't have to talk about it infront of so many people who walk down the same streets as me!

This guy seems like a psychopath. Contact the police.

Minibryant & Commongroundseeker: So sorry, you both had to go through this.