He contacts you less, sees you less, starts distancing himself emotionally and physically. Doesnt seem eager to see you, isnt curious about how you are doing etc.. if he becomes "too busy with stuff" thats a hint too
When the conversation is short and there's nothing to talk about and you hear nothing but silence, when you text eachother and there's really nothing to talk about, when he tells you he's tired and he's going to bed early. When he doesn't give you the same look or tell u all these sweet things he use to in the beginning. When the sex doesn't feel the same and it's not as much as before. When he doesn't come over to see you and when u want to see him you find yourself asking him if u can come see him without him asking you first.
When he ignores you, when he doesn't text you when you text him, when you tell him your afraid of loosing him and he doesn't care. when he spents more time with his bestfriend (girl). when he decided what's best for HIM, and not about him and his girlfriend, when he thinks he could do whatever he wants and it's okay, when he updates pictures of himself and girls like it. When he's not the same, when he doesn't treat you the same.
Sad part I Know this because it's happening with me right now, me and him are suppose to be 9 months this month and I feel like our relationship is ending. & now it is and am afraid but cant do anything anymore
You are so right, im also going through more or less thing, the latest pic he uploaded on his fb was a pic of a grl in his house, nd to thnk that he has never even uploaded mine. It hurts
He keeps saying he is busy and will get back to you when things settle down at the office.
He keeps telling you he needs space.
You email or text or call him all the time but it seems to take him a while to get back to you.
He mutters and mumbles a lot when you talk to him and doesn't look at you or meet your eyes.
He suddenly announces, for not particular reason, that he is quitting smoking; then he acts really badly and says it's about his kicking smoking (but you find him outside nervously lighting a cigarette when he thinks he don't see him).
When he calls you and he is going out the door with his new girlfriend on a date to say, thanks but no thanks
He says "Im immersed in work now".
Early signs I would say are:
- He suddenly is too busy to see you;so you end up seeing less of eachother as time goes by.
- He is less affectionate,if he was before,i.e.
- He takes longer to return your calls/texts
Hope this has been of help :)
he sits on the other end of couch
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We were in a bar. I went to the store, but told i would be right back. When i returned he was gone. When i called him he was at another bar with his friend. He never did this before.
when he ignores u
he is not the same
doesn't tell u he loves you anymore
he introduces you to his best friend (girl)
sees you less
lies to your face even though you know the truth
you also notice it in the sex too
well this is just some of the sign i notice...we have been together for a year and seven month...i loved him with all my heart...but i guess he found someone new it hurts but that just life...some ppl come in your life for a season but some will stay for a life time
All the above is happening to me after 14 years of relationship.....
He will no longer call, text nor visit. When you tell him you want tovist him he will always make excuses, telling you he will be busy. When you tell him you love him or you miss him, he will say things like "ow really, you making me blush now", or something else to avoid respondind with i love or miss you too because he no longer feels these words.
He don't call nor text you when u text back.
You ask him questiob about the relationship and he tends to jump around it.
When u feel that he is cheating and when u ask him he say you are tripping...
says im tired been working and never give sex in 7months
when you ask him to talk n all he does is play on his phone till 5am....no chill time no hugs no kisses
Things are just not the same as in the beginning..
Firstly you can feel he is driting
He doesn't look at you same
Spends more time with work/hobbies than looking fo rnoments to share for you
His sex drive decreases
Things become repetive/borning
You start to hate the quesiton "what are we going to have for supper."
You feel lke best friends not lovers
Really look within and make a decision : are you happy?
He starts giving little hints.....read between the lines.
he spends more time j erking off than talking to you. When you show up at his place he almost throws up at your face. When he comes over his finger smells like p ussy.......True Story
the tlc is very low and the way he speaks to you lol is rude dump the losser and move on
If he starts to dress nicer and forgets to call you like he use to....doesn't make love to you the way he use to...than you need to step up your game and become more independent yourself. I don't know I think I remember you saying he would be lost without you. Are you sure you are not being paranoid a little bit over this girls digits in his BBM?