What are the main reasons why a new lover might disappoint you in bed ?
Not withstanding the fact that things obviously improve as you learn more about each other etc, I am interested to know of experiences that have disappointed for other reasons and what they may be. In my case I am middle aged guy and date women of similar age, and find the amout of women who think all they have to do is lie back like a corpse, Apply no movement or enthusiam, accept foreplay and oral on them but too shy/timid to reciprocate?? or simply cant ****** rather staggering. I have had great relationships in the past and fortunately do now. I am sure some men are equally inept. I'm interested in your experiences that haven't worked for you and why.