The biggest negative is the risk of going to hell. Sexual purity means fidelity to one person after marriage and abstinence before marriage. STDs are just one problem; the loss of trust, the loss of one's reputation, ruining her chances of finding a permanent relationship are others. Spiritually, there is a haunting, nagging emptiness that keeps trying to seek fulfilment in the wrong way; it is like a thirsty person drinking something that just makes them more thirsty. As for your cousin hitting on you, tell her firmly, "NO." It's trendy, that's all; she is so desperate she will hit on anyone or anything.
literaturegirl, among the people who have affirmed the existence of hell are Jesus Christ, St Theresa of Avila (who visited there) and St John Vianney, who once told a protestant when she told him she doesn't believe in hell, "You will when you get there." Now, those are three people of eminent sanctity and heroic virtue. If there was no other argument but that of argumentum ad hominem, there would already be substantial grounds for belief. Now ask yourself, why would any educated, rational person, choose to agree with someone unknown to them and insulting them, over and above people she has the utmost respect for?
One night stands tend to make you feel empty, and the sex just isn't that good.<br />
Get her a s3x toy and a rechargeable battery set for Christmas, maybe she'll be more willing to wait for someone of better quality.
One negative is having to deal with people who are judgmental and nosy---if you're female, that is. Males just don't seem to elicit the same type of "concern". Wonder why that is ?
word! o.O , what's homegirl's number ?