Instead, try to help. A shy guy or girl are often afraid of themselves, then help them by words, looks and understanding. Everyone have not Tarzan as name..... lolz
pros - concern for others, friendliness, thoughtfulness, respect
cons - constant fear, distance, awkwardness, relationship going nowhere
Even though the person maybe shy or be socially anxious, they have good qualities such as they're going to less aggression/ drama to deal with, and introspective & intellectual individuals.
it depends on what attracts you - shy people are usually more introspective and often have more self-knowledge - i think it's more about whether hard or soft power is what turns you on - but perhaps i'm over-simplifying
there excelent @ minding there own f%$king Bizness XD