Most of the time it is a maturity thing. A lot of girls get burnt out on young guys who are still immature and they think that a older guy would be the right answer. Sometimes people also feel so lonely that they would be with anyone in the world just to feel loved. When girls look for a mate they usually look for different things than guys. Girls often times look for security, stability, someone that can provide, someone who is responsible, etc...
We treat a lady like a lady.
Whether its older guys or younger guys, it doesn't matter. Go for what you like. It's your life.
IT'S OUR SECRET.....<br />
I think that some young females just want to be taken care of. And they can be drawn to an older man because an older man seems more decisive or seems to have more strength. It could be that a young woman is looking for someone who is almost fatherly and who makes her feel safe. It is easy to be drawn to a man who has a certain amount of wisdom, which is associated with age and experience. It also could be that older men often come off as being more easygoing or stable in their lives. The angst and instability that affects younger men might be outgrown. At least that's the hope anyway.
Maturity, experience, less bs, knowledge how to treat a woman.<br />
Though being 40+ doesn't guarantee he has all that. But I know lots of girls are after older men entirely for money.
Money, power, influence, and the fact that some old guys are so desperate they will hand over all their money.
Good question; this type of question always gets a variety of answers, because there are really a variety of reasons.<br />
It's true that some young women are just flat-out gold diggers, unfortunately.<br />
Some psychologists say young women who didn't grow up with much of a father figure will find themselves attracted to an older man as sort of a father replacement.<br />
Others just want a mature man.<br />
Or sometimes you just meet someone, and they're just so "right" for you -- so much, that age doesn't matter.<br />
Me personally, I don't "disqualify" anyone ba<x>sed on age as long as they're legal! <br />
In fact, I'm engaged to be married to an older man. I'm not a gold digger. He's not my "father". I'm not his "daughter". We are PARTNERS. And we are getting married in less than 2.5 weeks! =)
Didn't know there were any 20's, 30's females around who were attracted to us older 60's something males... who cares about the reasons why, the end result is what counts! yay! HAPPY DAYS are here again! (just kidding) :) <br />
Going from the answers so far, there's hope for me yet!
It's all cash. Period.
Definitely not. =)
it's often $$, but sometimes it's not. i never understood it myself. i like them younger.
Money and a sharp car.
lol not every older man has that, so that's not always the reason!
though not always; maybe even less often than you think. =)
Ok, so here's my thoughts on this. Firstly when you get to be my age, 50 something, most guys are either in committed relationships, married or gay or dead. Guys do die earlier than women, generally speaking that is, that leaves a rather large gap between available men and available women. <br />
What has this got to do with twenty something girls? Men at this age are already past all the angst and insecurity of their younger days and, in my case, are quite happy with their own lives. No need to have your ego boosted all the time, easier to get along with and more available to listen and compliment the young lady. It's not just 20 something girls who are attracted to us older chaps, lots of women are.<br />
God bless all the women who like us older men no matter what age they are, we love them all.
I love a man in his 50s when I am in my 30s why well not sure but he does have nice brown eyes his hair is going grey but he just has something. He makes me smile and is very understanding and caring more than may be younger men would be so may be that's it.
It's guessin on my part, but mayb these men are the daddy they can **** n be an obedient slave too? N of course xperience....
Must be love.
I don't know but I'd like to get in on it.
ok i ll tell u something i am 27 and i like old guys so much but not in romantic way..but i had crush once or twice toward older guys..and i didn't go thro it cos i know its not right<br />
but to explain why,....well i don't know..i just like older guys..i feel they have more brain in their heads?!!<br />
and they listen and they approciate what does life mean..and they look beyond appearances of thins<br />
i just like them for being older i guess :D<br />
plzzzzzzzzzz answer mine<br />
Just wondering why you don't think it's right to crush on or date an older guy. If you had a crush on someone, and weren't into him for any negative reasons (neediness, gold digging, etc), why not at least try it and see how it works out?
Are you looking for tips here?