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  1. badbinary - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by badbinary Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:35AM

    penguins injured in trench warfare

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  2. sparklesforyou - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by sparklesforyou Mar 14th, 2012 at 12:37PM

    awww dont hurt the penguins

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  3. badbinary - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by badbinary Mar 14th, 2012 at 12:40PM

    i didnt injure them Colonel Giraffee did

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  4. SecretBrokenDoll - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by SecretBrokenDoll May 8th, 2012 at 5:18PM

    The part where I lose my personal space. "Yes, shnookems. I like you, m'kay? Now can you go stand over there while I try to freaking BREATHE on my own!!!!"

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  5. ElyaMarie - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by ElyaMarie Mar 22nd, 2012 at 1:50AM

    Co-dependence. I dont want to be someone's be all, end all, supply-everything-you-need person. I dont like insecurity or the clingy-ness that results. I dont like it when someone acts like they are my victim or takes everything i do or say as some kind of personal attack and thus constantly responds with defensiveness. I dont want to be controlled, manipulated or lied to.

    Where are all of the healthy people?? Can i please have one??

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  6. Nurse68 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Nurse68 Mar 14th, 2012 at 6:46PM

    lack of desire on one's part to try and make it work.

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  7. Ella71367 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Ella71367 Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:35AM

    If the relationship is bad then every single thing will bother you, however when you're in a good stable relationship you know how to not sweat the small stuff.

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  8. Alive2011 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Alive2011 Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:33AM

    Someone that dowsnt like themselves, to the point that no matter how much i tell them i love them they dont believe it. Thats hard work!

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  9. Riderz4Christ - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Riderz4Christ Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:30AM

    jealosy and controlling women

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  10. Mmmmme - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Mmmmme Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:31AM

    That goes both ways, ya know.

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  11. Riderz4Christ - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by Riderz4Christ Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:31AM

    ofcourse it does

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  12. MarriedUnlovedAndAlone - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by MarriedUnlovedAndAlone Jun 21st, 2012 at 11:05PM

    The fact that I got married.

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  13. Myalee - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Myalee Jun 3rd, 2012 at 6:03PM

    Being insensitive, selfish and cheating is my main bothersome.

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  14. Sweetbadgal18 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Sweetbadgal18 May 7th, 2012 at 10:15PM

    When I love my man with all the love I can give a man but he takes advantage of it, is selfish, only worry about his wants and needs. Is unforgiving when I mess up and doesn't play 50/50 instead he wants more while I have less

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  15. aces4battle - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by aces4battle Apr 12th, 2012 at 2:35PM

    When a person does not the difference between friendship and lover. My gf treat me the same as a general friendship, except when it come to sex acts.

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  16. BuckarooBonzai - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by BuckarooBonzai Apr 4th, 2012 at 8:24PM

    Them not dieing promptly

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  17. SecretBrokenDoll - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by SecretBrokenDoll May 8th, 2012 at 5:16PM

    BA EVA!!!!!!

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  18. ThisismeXD - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by ThisismeXD Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:59AM

    When they are controlling

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  19. oldfarmguy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by oldfarmguy Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:46AM

    They never last

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  20. anon1030 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by anon1030 Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:33AM

    being lied to. once i'm lied to it takes a lot to get that trust back if it can be at all. without trust you can't have a relationship.

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  21. SEANCURIOS - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by SEANCURIOS Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:32AM

    the focus on monogamy concerns more so that love concerns.

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  22. Sarah619 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Sarah619 Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:31AM

    I agree with nomomisery

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  23. Mmmmme - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Mmmmme Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:30AM

    Dishonesty.....Lies will always catch up to ya.

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  24. FindingMyVoice - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FindingMyVoice Mar 14th, 2012 at 11:29AM

    Games and lies... as well as miscommunications and mostly SELFISHNESS.

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