she likes the fact that the kids have what they need instead of you.
you can either stop seeing him, or split the expenses, that's what I do with the guy I see, when we are able to see each other, which is not often these days
Honey, go for any married man, but lay off those with kids. It's not fair on them. What happens to them when they discover that their Dad is a cheat and a liar? And do you really want to be with a man that exposes his kids to that kind of grief?
Looks like you may have to find a way to pay for it all, on your own.
Do you have to go through this?
Call her and ask if she has a room for rent...just move in there and maybe you can baby sit for reduced rent. If you do some light housekeeping, she may even offer some free meals...Get creative.
Dam got to say you are brave and his balls must be in her purse to but more important what are you going to gain from this guy wow
well love makes us blind, clear your head and avoid what is coming down the line, there is always someone else always , you are brave in a silly way to even think any good is coming
does not make you a bad person so dont think that is what I am saying
He could save up gradually in secret and you could split the bill with him...but what's wrong with your place?