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last weekend, there was a carnival. I invited one of my best friends. she came. but left within 10 minutes to go see her new boyfriend. she knows how much i need friends right now but she wasn't bothered. So that night, i went to a club, and her ex was there. they were together for about a month, going back nearly a year ago. We chatted, just made friends. he told me to apologise to her because of what happened a year ago. so i told her. she got angry at me. And the thing is, she doesn't get angry at anyone else for talking to him. So i still want to talk to him. he explained what happened last year, and i just want everyone to move on from it. I asked my friend to come out with me this weekend. she says our village is boring and she doesnt want to. but she was out in our village last night, and i was sitting in my garden talking to my next door neighbour, and she accused me of talking to her ex. why does she always assume im best mates with him all of a sudden? we talked - once.

First of all....she doesn't seem like much of a friend, to me....from what I am reading.....She ditches you after 10 min....goes off on you, for talking to an ex of hers....doesn't want to hang out with you, because it's too boring.....and she accuses you of doing things you aren't doing (talking to her ex, when you were talking to your neighbor).

It doesn't matter who you were talking to, by the way....you have the right to do whatever you wish....She seems like the type of "friend" that is available all on her terms...when it's convenient or it works FOR HER...

I'd find another friend....and if you want to talk to her ex, do so....He's on the market....and she's with someone else, so, unless she's trying to control what you do, why should she care anyway?