What can I do to not be so upset about my mom not being their for when my grandfather died because my dad was a jerk?
Today, I found out that my mom didn't make it to the nursing home when her dad (my grandfather) died. And she didn't make it in time because my Dad was being a jerk and arguing with her that day. I also found out that my dad was the one that literally took my pap to the nursing home because he didn't want to deal with him anymore. I'm really hurt by this and grieving... He died a couple years ago but this is just awful knowing my Mom wasn't there for him - the nurses said he had kept asking for my mom and told him to hang on but he couldn't any longer and died. I feel very upset with my dad over this but I know that's not going to bring my pap or that moment back.