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What can i do when i know my boyfriend cheat on me . but he still want me back because the sake of my kids?

sometimes I feel he doesnt love me, but im not brave enought to leave him, i love him so much. what can i do when he has a daughter with other woman and still taking care of them and still leave with me. he still care for me and say he love me. but he doesnot admit he didnt love the other woman. I feel depress about this situation. he told me this will end soon, the baby almost 1 years old , things doesnt change. i still want him back, i will take good care of his daughter but can not stand he living with baby's mom. what can i do now to stop this without hurting my children. Part of me still feel sorry for the baby was born in this situation????but what about me and my children, im not ready to leave without him, but feel paintful knowing he doesni love me.
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Dont leave Physically but leave emotionally,find something to do and let him miss you.
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Posted Jun 22nd, 2009 at 7:55AM
Find another home. Make sure he can't find you.
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Posted Jun 22nd, 2009 at 7:37AM
mmm
Not an easy situation, sometimes the right thing to do is the hardest thing. Broken harts heal, kids are surprisingly better at dealing with relationship breackups than there parents sometimes..
I know you love him still, but look at it this way.. Don't you deserve to be loved back ?
Can you ever have a happy loving relationship with someone you don't trust ?
I believe in your heart you know the right decision.

You just need to trust your self and know that you will get through it,, and when you do that door will close and another door will open...
One which can give you a second chance at being happy.
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Posted Jun 22nd, 2009 at 12:58AM
Be brave and let go of him and rebuild your life and self esteem! Rely on friends and family. Forge a life for you and your child that makes room for him as a father but not a partner. Good luck, be strong!
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Posted Jun 22nd, 2009 at 9:21AM
You leave him. You ask for a court-ordered child support arrangement. You find someone better.
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