lets start flipping some pages to get an idea....
Stop going after jerks and give the nice guys you run to upset over the jerk, a chance.
Don't be a smartass, like, thinking they know all about 'their' opposite gender. :-D
It does no good to complain...they don't listen, and just accuse you of nagging...why waste my breath?
The walls have ears...:)
Probably analyzing everything to death.