**** her sister.
Im going thru a break up myself, and the only way I let my emotions out is writting about it.
Im going through the same thing.. its not easy
I think it takes time and time to know what it is you want and don't want and know you will settle for nothing less the big part is learning to trust in our selves again.
it's hard, I know, and you can't regain your confidence from outside sources. It has to come from within, and that takes time after what you've been through. Just know that not all women are like your ex....don't get stuck in that mind-set. Take some time for yourself and usually the best things happen when you least expect them. Best wishes sweetie! xo