No guy is the same, so they probably all think differently.
As a guy with guy friends I know that they either think the girl is controlling and will get pissed, or, first they think "oh ****, she knows what I did" and then they'll feel like the girl is being controlling and get pissed.
I can't speak for all guys, but if my girlfriend started acting jealous id think she is an insecure wacko, and she would soon be my ex- girlfriend.
I must be very important to her. And she cares.
The way the man is acting or she is insecure.