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What do I do about girls being very loud in bed?

The girls I sleep with are very loud in bed. They really get into it, and so do I, and I think it's hot. We enjoy ourselves but I live in an apartment with thin walls --- and these girls are LOUD! I can tell them to be quiet all the time or do it less intensely but that takes the fun out of it! But if I do it normally and they are really loud, neighbors and landlord tell me all about it and ask me to keep it down. I can't afford to move and rent a house, but sex is a very important part of my life so I don't want to make it worse.... what do I do?
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My update: I got a kick out of all of your answers... found a woman who enjoys me even more (and is louder and more into it) and said f- it! If neighbors don't like it, they don't like it. Also noticed that after I have sex, a neighbor girl talks to me a bit more whereas otherwise she doesn't. (She turned me down before).

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Those guys are just jealous. Make as much noise as possible, just to **** them off.

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Nixstix	Posted Aug 6th, 2009 at 12:07AM Go to her flat / home ... You can't stop them from enjoying it and believe me being shut up whilst ... is a mood breaker .. BEST ADVISE USE ANOTHER LOCATION OR FIND A BETTER LOCATION .. or you can just ignore the neighbors ... maybe tell her your mother stays next door .... hie hie hie Rated: +3Vote for this!
meteorite	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 6:48PM Buy a muzzle for your sex partners. Or buy ear muffs for all your neighbours hehe. Rated: +3Vote for this!
LillyLou	Posted Jul 30th, 2009 at 12:43AM muffle their noises by placing a pillow over their heads....and if it seems to be the girls you are with maybe the common denominator is you! Not much you can do about that ;) Rated: +3Vote for this!
terry0001	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 6:48PM I can't stop laughing this is funny wish i had your problem....hahaha good answers by the way... especially the last one imagine explaining the egg cartons stuck to your walls lol... Rated: +3Vote for this!
TendereyesPrinces s	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 6:48PM Let the fantasy takes place and use duct tape! ;-) Rated: +3Vote for this!
Nyxie	Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 9:48PM First, relocate your bed to a part of your apartment that has the fewest common walls. Then, get a few of those egg-crate mattress pads and affix them on the common walls and ceiling. They're not that expensive. I use them for my sound studio and I think I paid $10 for the last one I bought. Besides, seems to be it would be worth it to not have the cops showing up on a noise complaint. Talk about killing the mood... Rated: +3Vote for this!
ThomasTheDestroye r	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 4:31AM turn on the radio and crank it up Rated: +2Vote for this!
emilystubbs	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 4:32AM well you do seem to have a problem there! if the girls you are sleeping with are realy too loud then why not suggest that the two of you go to hers? Or if that is not an option then take her to a hotel or bnb for the night, that way you can have sexual intercourse all night without being bothered about what people think - they will never see you again will they? Never let anything get in the way though love! Rated: +2Vote for this!
DarkangelTherian	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 12:57PM With everyone on EP and the Great Spirit as my witness - the day I tell a woman to keep quiet during sex, I will staple my lips together. Rated: +2Vote for this!
rob57	Posted Aug 6th, 2009 at 12:07AM Rent a motel room... Rated: +2Vote for this!
singlemommy2009	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 8:50AM Ok I am one of the loud ladies and I say just buy a gag ball!!!!! Well obviously if she is down for it use it. I think it's hot but that's me. I know I'm gonna get **** for the answer but you all gotta remember every woman has different turn ons so some may be down and some may not but it won't hurt to ask. If she's not into that but really wants you she'll just simply say no and get it on without!!!!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
MrsIcb4rP	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 3:39AM first of all you need background noise like the tv or music. second you'll need duct tape, pillows, scarves, gags, discipline...that's what me & the booty call have to do. sometimes if the house is truly empty (kids/family all gone) i call him up. its party time baby we can get as loud as we want!!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
humptydumpty85	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 3:41AM wow...hhmmm...this is a first i must say!!...a guy complaining about a girl being to loud...lol....gag-her..shag-her..and by the surrounding tenants/landlord ear-muffs...lol... :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
Comprehensive2	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 3:43AM TELL THEM TO STOP PRETENDING BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF GETTING TIED DOWN. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Amadis	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 4:21AM enjoy Rated: +1Vote for this!
kazwaz1977	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 7:48AM hehe - this is why i always insisted on staying at my husband's (then boyfriend) dad's house! When we stayed at my mum and dad's i was forever going shhh! and couldn't enjoy myself at all, but at his dad's.....lol We ended up getting banned in the end - he said we were 'too noisy' and though he never specified, we knew what he meant by noisy! We also stunk his upstairs out with ylang ylang massage oil, making his home smell like a brothel - his dad's words, not mine! If it wasn't so embarrassing, it'd be funny. Dunno what i can say to help you, mate - don't be so good in bed? Put your hand over their mouth? (just not in a 'rapey' way!!) Good luck to you - you're a womaniser, but at least they all seem to be enjoying themselves! Rated: +1Vote for this!
emerald	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 8:24AM Be LOUDER! :D Seriously! Either join the fun, or it will make her aware, embarrass her, and she'll quiet down a bit! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Sigma07	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 8:36AM I had that same problem, I tried the music thing, they complained about that, I tried turning the tv up, they complained about that as well, Just check your lease and I bet their is nothing about excessive noise from sex in there. So keep doing your thing. Rated: +1Vote for this!
TheGoldenBear	Posted Jul 27th, 2009 at 9:02AM Put "something" in their mouth. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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