What do I do? found out that my friends husband is cheating on her with another man.I know this because u saw him.
9 Answers to "What do I do? found out that my friends husband is cheating on her with another man.I know this because u saw him."
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I would find a way to tell her. Now, depending on her personality I may not do it directly. Some people can't help but direct some of their feelings toward the messenger. Also, depending on how open the person is to you, you may have discovered a secret they wouldn't otherwise have revealed to you. She may know or suspect or wonder and not be comfortable talking about it. I would try to make sure she got the info in way that she would be able to deal with it herself but that would cause her the least embarrassment from my telling.
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Omgoshh talk about a bad situation, wow!
first off I would pray and ask God what you should do with it.
Then if you have peace with letting him know then go for it. But ive seen alot of situations ie personal experienced and movies that the friend seems to turn on you but Im sure that wont be your case!
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While it is a very good idea to inform your friend what her man is up to, you need to weigh up the pros and cons. Main question, are you prepared to be accused of telling porkies, being told to mind your own business or loose the friendship?
Telling him that you know about it will make him think twice about what he is doing and what he is doing to her, he is putting her health at risk and he owes her to know what his status is. If he doesn't tell her then you need to find a way to let her know what he is doing.Like (1)
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I'd tell her. The truth is important
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With another man? So the guy is secretly gay? I would keep quiet and talk to the wife. I would try to find out if she is suspicious of him without telling her anything.
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I had to reread the question....husband is cheating with another man. Crap. My first thought would be shock. Then I would need to tell my friend. I've heard the advice of 'stay out of it' and this is good advice because sometimes the friend can resent you for sharing and even knowing that very personal information. However, a real friend will always be upfront with you...I would like to consider myself a real friend...so I would have to tell. However that being said, I would need to be EXTRA sure before I go saying something like that. Damn...can't decide if it would be easier to handle if it were a woman or not...either way, I don't envy your shituation. Best of luck.
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a. tell her direct and risk being called an f'n lire and loose the freindship.
b. leave "breadcrumbs" so she finds them herself.Like (1)
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wow yikes
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by musicbook Jun 7th, 2012 at 9:39AM
If she's a good friend, tell her exactly what you saw.
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