Let the idiot go and do what he wants... he'll do it anyway.
Maybe he'll figure it all out before he grows up and turns 14!
It really doesn't matter NOW. You're going to have about 16 more guys you like and you'll date about 8 and you sleep with at least 4 and finally live with one have a kid, leave him because he's abusive and finally marry a really decent guy that you totally ignored throughout highschool !
So what's the hurry with getting some young punk kid that's a confused as you as back into your life?
You got it!
There is hope for the world yet!
You can't save other people from themselves.
you have to be realistic about it...he is going to be fickle anyway...forget him
let him work it out dont get involved
every one gets heart broken if he dosnt learn know he will learn later in life.
if things turn to **** for him then be there to help pick up the pieces