What do i do if the father wants to leave me because I won't have an abortion?
11 Answers to "What do i do if the father wants to leave me because I won't have an abortion?"
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Tell him to go fu%k himself, and not to come back. You don't need a piece of sh#t like that in your life.
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If you want the baby, then choose your child (just know that the poor child will have HIM as a father).... no man that loves you would make you make a decision like that. I was in the same position once. I was young, I chose the man. I have always regretted that. Years later when I finally did manage to get away from that "man", I found out I was pregnant several weeks after leaving him. he tried to use my pregnancy as a way of getting me back, saying that he wanted to be family now. He said he would never"let" me terminate this pregnancy.. He just wanted to use the child to manipulate and control me. I felt the best thing to do was terminate the pregnancy again. I have regretted having to make that decision many many times. However I am grateful he has no excuse to be in my life and attempt to manipulate and control me.
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Well you are way too good for this guy, he knows how you feel about this little life growing inside you and you already love this child so much so theres only one thing you must do. Let that rat bag go it will be a very hard time ahead of you but it will be worth it believe me. You will be the winner and him the looser . There was this woman i knew who fell pregnant to her boyfriend she agreed to abort the chid then after all that he started cheeting on her she diched him and cant have any kids now as she had ovarian cancer so she lost big style. I love men but id always advise people not to make them centre of there universe as they have the tendency to suit themselves and shoot you in the foot, if it were me with your dilema personaly id ditch him he doesnt take me as being caring.....x
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This is your choice dont let him make it for u, if your ready to be a mom have this baby. Tell him that if he cant support ur choice to have the baby then thats his choice and tell him to go ahead and leave. Yes i no its a very hard thing this is. But u will end up resenting him and hating urself if u truly want this baby but dont keep it. Please do what is best for u and ur baby.
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decide if your ready for a baby as well. if you are you can do it on your own
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He clearly doesn't want kids right now. Ernie is right about your options if you decide to have the baby. You should have no illusions about it at all - looks like it will be an uphill battle from the get go.
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if he truly cared about you he would never ask you to kill his innocent child. he's a pos and you can do better leave him and take the pleasure of leaving you away from him :)
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Either plan to support yourself and your child or get a lawyer to sue him for support, and make sure to have proof he is the father of the child
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He wants you to kill his baby? If he doesn't value life, he doesn't value you. Get rid of the son of a *****. He isn't worth the life of your baby.
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Don't believe anything he says. My friend got the abortion and he told he he would have married her if she kept it. He is playing mind games. You need to decide what is right for you. PLease take care of yourself and get the support you need.
If you decide to have your baby make sure he is on the birth certificate and make sure he is paying support. If you don't need it now you might int he future. He is the "responsible" party and needs to step up. Good Luck to you in what ever you decide.Like (1)
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Posted by gwynmama Nov 8th, 2010 at 1:46AM
leave him. end of story
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