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I just got divorced within the last year. I was married all through my 20's and I don't feel like I know how to date at all. My ex boyfriend (the last person i dated before i married) found me and we hung out nearly every day for months. He told me he didn't want a relationship, but I have feelings. Not talking to him or seeing him is, im sure, the answer most people will give me. But I feel so hopeless...I have a hard time not answering his texts, and it makes me feel good that someone wants me (but makes me feel bad he doesnt want a relationship). I feel stuck and sad and hopeless with life.
givingup80 givingup80 31-35 10 Answers Jul 31, 2011

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benefits my arse, thats all bullshitt...three words for ya, DON'T DO IT

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People try to rationalize fwb but in the end all it is is one individual USING another for instant gratification. There is no connection there--there is no genuine love. It's just self centered person using another to get off. Is that what type of individual you want to look at day after day? That individuals existence would deeply nauseate me but that's just me though.

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You already know the answer. <br />
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If you're staying with him just because he pays you attention, the consequence is that you feel like crap. <br />
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I don't know you but i'm quite sure you are worth more than that. :S

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So you know the answer is to stop contact, but you're also so lonely right now that it's hard. I say go with it...BUT keep your options open too. No, scratch that...go out and start meeting people. Get out into the world. Eventually, you'll start feeling better and it will be easier to move on. Heck, you may even meet someone worth your time and affection and stopping everything with this guy will just be natural.

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Hmmnn... friends with benefits... doesn't that involve bumping uglies?<br />
If I'm right about that bit, then have more self respect and only share yourself with someone who reciprocates your feelings. <br />
If I'm wrong about that bit, ignore me... :o)

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There's plenty of fish in the sea...Find someone else!

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Let it go...he only wants a piece and told you that up front.

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Listen to Kilyra.

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i guess just keep trying ive been married for 2 years my husband doesnt love me back he beats me and tells me to leave but i love him so i keep on trying try harder hell love u sumday.

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Next time he tells you to leave..... do it. The harder you try, the harder he'll beat you.

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You need to take a Sunday, to yourself, and turn on Lifetime Movie Network.

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