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So here's the story. He's my best friend. We do everything together. When I met him, he was perfect. I could see a future with this boy...but then I found out he was gay. And it has been very hard. I don't know what to do. He knows my feelings towards him, and he's okay with them, but doesn't want to see me get hurt. It used to be well let's re-evaluate our friendship - but now it's like I'm in my own relationship with him...He has a boyfriend though - and I love seeing them together. But it is very hard because I feel like he's the one for me. He knows I would never do anything and I know that it will never happen - he thinks female anatomy is just gross.. he's gay through and through. I don't know what to do because he treats me like I'm a girlfriend to him, and he talks to me more than he talks to his own boyfriend sometimes. We do everything together, and it's like he's in two relationships - a real one...and then with me. I don't know what to do - it really hurts me..Help :
schultzii schultzii 18-21 5 Answers Dec 8, 2013 in LGBT

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Well it seems your in a triangle hmm if u really love him just be patient and stay in touch with him.

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Be glad you have someone that great to be friends with. You are so blessed! It's so hard to find a friend you can love and trust. If you really can't deal with it, don't tell him, just start pulling away. Yes, I had a gay friend like that too. And I simply pulled back. We live each other always but we have to understand our major differences. It was too painful for me to think I could not have him, so I moved on, I let go. If you can't find a guy you like , you might need to let go or you will never have a chance at romantic love. I would not make a big deal of "moving on" because it might take you at least a year... There's no sense in being dramatic about it, be friends forever just let go an itty bit at a time

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Is it jealousy?

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MOVE ON

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