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What do i say to her?

my best friends mom is having surgery very soon for a cyst larger than her bladder and is leaving the country for a month to get the surgery done. i dont no what to say to make my friend feel better because i no she is scared for her mom since she cant be with her for it and her mom has had 3 surgeries in the past (not for the same thing). what should i say to her? i already said i am sorry and she can talk to me about it, but what else?

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The only other think I could you do is maybe write her Mom a little note or get a card wishing her the best on her medical care and recovery and give it to her before she leaves.

If it were my friend, I would ask her if she wanted some company on the day of her mom's surgery and then maybe just watch videos with her, or go to the park, or whatever she wants to do and just be with her while she waits to hear about her mom. You don't have to worry about saying anything spectacular, just what you've already said to her and that you'll be thinking of her and her mom, and then just be with her if she wants company.

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LoveHope	Posted Aug 12th, 2009 at 2:31AM Just be there for her, just knowing she has you for support will be a big help. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ZombieKitty	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 9:18PM Knowing you are there for her to talk to, means more than any words YOU could ever say. Good luck to all in this situation. *hugs Rated: +1Vote for this!
SeriouslySappy	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 9:20PM I think it's enough just to let her know you care and are there for her. You're a good friend. : ) Rated: +1Vote for this!
supercab	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 9:22PM Hey you being there with her means a lot. Her knowing that she has someone to talk to and hold on to when she needs someone. Just try and pray with her i mean what can you say it's in Gods hands now. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Lacsar	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 9:25PM Let her know you are there to do anything in your power and give her lots of hugs - do little things you can see need be done - like errands, make some food, restock missing items from the fridge/pantry - do dishes - **** she won't have the time or energy to do and to preoccupied to ask for or think of Rated: +1Vote for this!
smileymii	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 9:41PM sit down with her (with her fav soda) and tell herthat soon everything will be ok and say that u think her mom is powerful and stong then tell her everthing will be ok Rated: +1Vote for this!
ABCDEF7	Posted Aug 12th, 2009 at 2:52PM MY GOOD WISHES R WITH UR MOM & I WILL PRAY 2 GOD FOR HER SAFER & SUCCESSFUL SURGERY. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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