What do u do if ur ex has a girlfriend but he still wants u but isnt willing to break it off with her?

move on to the next guy. there's really nothing more you can do

just forget about him, if he's not going to break up with her then he's not worth your time.

The same thing happened to me. i told him to get lost. I have too much respect for myself to play second to anyone else. And i wasnt going to hurt her the way i had been hurt. It wasnt her fault.

Don't even give him the time of day.

Ever heard of the expression 'having your cake and eating it'?

sorry to be harsh, but all you are is a booty call. why do you want to be "the other woman" ? where's your respect for yourself. I'll say it again... You cannot make a man be with you if he doesnt want to be. & if you are the woman he wants to be with, nothing will stop him. I'm guessing this man is a player, and surely you will want to be with a man that will treat YOU with respect, and have a man that is respectful and treats women decently.

If you have ANY self-respect (which seems in question if you have to ask such a question as this), TELL HIM TO GO FOOK HIMSELF. Are you kidding me? He "needs" you but he has sex with her? I don't care WHO he is, how big he is, how cute or funny he is or how good he is in bed. DUMP HIM! He's just doing that to keep you close in case the other relationship fails....a little "sex cushion" for himself. This kind of guy is a L-O-S-E-R! Get the heck away from him, girl! Gezus....I can't believe when women do this to themselves. NEVER, NEVER...NEVER EVER take this jerk back. Got that? NO way in hell.

Dump them...if they already cheated on you or you could do the naughty thing and share him. However the fact remains is this he cheated on you. It comes down to how much you value yourself? If you have low self esteem..you will of course, no doubt..chose to be naughty as this is non-convertational.
However,if you value your own opinion...and who you are...you will in doubt dump his cheating ***.

No matter how much it hurts u tell him to get lost PERIOD. Even if he gave her up for u what would stop him from cheating on u. he cheated on her with u . i know its heartless but u REALLY don't want a guy who would cheat at all i have a friend who got AIDES from her husband because even after they got married he still couldn;t giv up his "old girl". please don;t put urself in this place, it may save ur life.

He's hoping you are dumb enough to go for it...Just let him know that you are better than he thinks you are..and tell him to get lost...He will treat you... the way... you let him treat you...So be good to yourself and relize you deserve better than that..Good luck!

I was in a similar situation. The person I was with was too chicken to break up and didn't "want to hurt her feelings or be seen as the bad guy." The way I see it, if someone wants to be with you they will want to be with you alone do what it takes to be with you. I know it hurts but I would recommend moving on as soon as you can. I got my hopes up repeatedly and got jerked around and let down. Not fun. You definitely deserve better than that. You deserve to be with someone who puts you first.

that's too selfish for him. dont stick with aguy like that. move on, ignore him. he doesnt love u enough to let go of the other one.

where will your relationship go if there's always a third party?

(As Beyonc'e said )"to the Left', To the Left'!!,
"Dump his ***,!!!
A 'real man', Wouldn't treat you like that, It's just a Lame excuse , I would "move on", and Fine Someone 'who loves you for you' :)