Something quick but semi sweet. Like a good place for lunch that has actual good food and have some things to talk about (funny is usually always a win). Make sure to shower, hold the door open and make sure you find a reason to touch her at least once or twice like putting your hand on the small of her back (for a second or two) as she goes throught the door and the like. Use the words we, ours, and us a lot as it mentally imprints in our brains as a couple.
don't just leave it up to women. We want to see you have confidence and the likes. Every other guy we are with always says where do you want to go? Don't be that guy. Have 3 places to go that are all different incase she doesn't like one or allergies or whatever, but then if she shoots them all down, put it on her to decide. Can't fault you for our indecisions. Go light on the touching on date one but it will send a little shiver up our spines and leaves us wanting a bit more (which you don't do until date two) unless she jumps your bones obviously. Good luck.
I don't think its possible for people who don't know you to answer this question--there's no way for us to know what's going on. You could try emailing the women who dated for feedback, saying something along the lines of how you are asking not because you want to restart something, but b/c you genuinely don't know if there is some way you are messing up on first dates (and thanking them ahead of time for their honesty).
Good luck! It would take some bravery to ask, but it could be really interesting.
Just have fun & if you really like her... the more creative you get with your plans- the better the date. Not cost but creative with the activities
Speaking ofr myself only I'd love to eat, maybe drink coffee, watch a film. That sort of thing. And I would always want to pay my share. But I don't date and we are all different lol
I prefer simple and low key so we can talk and get to know each other. A nice but not fancy restaurant. A visit to a museum and then some coffee. One of the best first dates I went on was to a zoo.
Full of suprises
Sounds like a pleasant first date to me.<br />
A photo and physical stats are needed to be sure.<br />
Are your hygienic habits sound and proper?<br />
Are you honest and do you show up on time?
Well there is your problem! She did not return because she has a HUSBAND!!!
Date SINGLE women!!!
Are you out of shape?
Then I don't know. Most women what a strong man, mentally and physically, drug free, stable and not an idiot.
Beats me then. sorry
You have to be 'fun' too... not boring
To get to know you and sort out if you are mentally stable and claim to be who you are.
Gosh...who needs mental stability? My IQ is too high for 'that' ;)
I'm pretty open. Something fun, but not overly loud to where you can't hear the other person talk! Something that will show me you actually put some thought in to it. Have a plan. Nothing is a greater turn off than a man with no plan for the evening.
I guess I'm different then. I have no fear of unfamiliar places, as long as I drive there myself and can leave at any time.
Do you ever bring up the ex? That is usually an exit cue for me.