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What do you do if both your parents are getting old and in poor health and you know they could die...?

at any time and you still don't have a husband??
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The one dosnt go with the other unless you fear lonliness...which is where i think your coming from....
1. when you are ready, when your thoughts are in alignment with your desire for the love of another and to love another...he will come.
2.We are all programmed to go home after our time here, they may pass but they will never truly be gone...
3. You are never alone...ever......
4. Listen to hayhouse radio, and allow some of the things you hear sink into your soul......
5. These are my beliefs and i can do is answer your questions from my belief process......it does not come from dogma nor religion of organised origin...it is my experiance....i have already lost a mother and a father.....and at this point i am not married either, although i share my life with man.
I hope this helps.......be at peace with yourself.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:27PM
You would do the same thing you would do if you did have a husband, except you won't have to share your inheritance.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:27PM
Why would having a husband have anything to do with this? Parents get old, they die - it's sad, but unavoidable. If you don't think you can get through it on your own, lean on your friends and family.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:27PM
Say everything you have wanted to say, try to get closure on anything that may need it for you and for them. Forgive them, love them, and most of all thank them.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:27PM
and why NOT HAVING a husband worries you ? Spend time with them as much as you can, talk to them , love them.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:30PM
We're all going to die. My parents are older people and if they should die before me, which in all likelihood they will, I will deal with it, with the support of my family.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:33PM
My dad just turned 99 in Oct and my mom is in her 70's so I know how you must feel all I can do is Love them both as long as I have them and be thankful for everyday I have left with them keep a piece of them in your heart always
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:44PM
Like lady V said, just appreciate them, while they're here. As for the husband thing, I'm sure you'll find someone that deserves and loves you. X
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 7:51PM
My Dad died of Cancer at 49 my Mother Died December a year ago. My Mother suffered her last days, it was easier to let her go because of the suffering. I miss her a lot but very glad she had 86 good years of health. Enjoy them now, do not be afraid to tell them how much you appreciated and love them. This means a lot to them as well. I know you talk of the Lord, put your trust in him. His plans will fall in place for you if you lean on him. He will never let you be alone.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 8:51PM
nothing since they both are dead. My dad died when I was 10 and mom in 2001. She never loved any of her brood while not helping or even wanting to talk. Very sad but this is how I feel.
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