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What do you do if you find out your bf/gf had another cell phone that you didn't know about?

A friend of mine just found out her bf had another cell phone with a different number. She asked him about it and he said it was a back up and he forgot to tell her about it.
Anyways, we know it's bs. She just doesn't know what to do now.

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  1. 7thPrime - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by 7thPrime Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:07AM

    Tough call. That line "easier said than done" comes into play. But the cell phone incident will stick out like a watergate scandal. Trust is wavered temporarily or indefinitely.

    I am left with no choice...I must leave...

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  2. Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gemzaayy Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:04AM

    If I found it then Id search it and if he was up to something he'd come home to find his clothes in bin bags and the locks changed.

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  3. Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Gemzaayy Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:05AM

    Should of said clean unused garbage bags LOL

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  4. mikanippon - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by mikanippon Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:09AM

    used garbage bags will do. lol

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  5. milander - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by milander Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:37AM

    Nothing really, I have my work mobile, my personal (expensive) mobile, my travel/drop it/lose it who cares mobile too... and wife is the same. If there was any cheating going on the least of my worries would be flirt texting, that's harmless, like watching pr0n. A real cheater would be showing themselves in other ways and if that's not happening... well, there is no problem. Let the guy/girl have some privacy.

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  6. mikanippon - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by mikanippon Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:41AM

    Ok....he might get the privacy he wanted soon.

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  7. milander - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by milander Apr 16th, 2012 at 3:24AM

    lol :)

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  8. nj11878 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by nj11878 Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:10AM

    Mine did... I dumped him 2 days ago.... It was for his "other" girlfriend.... If he lies about that... What else is he lying about?

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  9. mikanippon - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by mikanippon Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:12AM

    Did he have other girls phone numbers on there?

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  10. nj11878 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by nj11878 Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:28AM

    Yes he did, he accidentally butt dialed me.... I heard her say something about his phone being connected. I called it back, it was his name and voice on the voicemail.

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  11. LadyClarion - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by LadyClarion Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:09AM

    Very suspicious.

    Keep an eye on it.
    Now that she's aware, let him think he has the benefit of the doubt and that it's harmless and nothing to worry about. But look for signs to point out to him that it isn't - ie why she doesn't have the number or why it rings at strange time, for example.

    As soon as you can show him the proof for your concerns, go ahead and ask him to get rid of it. Even if you have to use the excuse, "it's not you it's me" - as in "I'm sure it's nothing to worry about, as you keep saying, but it makes ME feel insecure in our relationship."

    But whatever works...

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  12. solessia - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by solessia Apr 21st, 2012 at 9:35PM

    I did While he was sleeping Had to get something out of car checked it out found 8 different text ended up he was seeing all of them after contacting each 1 of them had them come to the house once they were all there I let him in the house and I left the house. The next day I filed for divorce

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  13. solessia - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by solessia Apr 21st, 2012 at 9:37PM

    I let them in*

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  14. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Apr 16th, 2012 at 9:36PM

    You think you have a right to know about all your BFs cellphones? When you grow up, you are going to be a control freak, just like your mother. Good luck hanging onto men after your **** sag.

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  15. mikanippon - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by mikanippon Apr 16th, 2012 at 9:45PM

    First of all....I only have ONE bf. I am not saying I have the right to know every single details that goes on his life, but I do have the right to be respected and deserve honesty when I give it.

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  16. solessia - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by solessia Apr 21st, 2012 at 9:39PM

    Yes you have every right to know And don't let nobody else tell you otherwise

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  17. breakercode - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by breakercode Apr 16th, 2012 at 6:32AM

    its ok..i have 2 phones and 2 sim also :D

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  18. kikikay - 22-25 years old

    Posted by kikikay Apr 16th, 2012 at 6:26AM

    well if hes got nothing to hide hell have no problem her looking at the phone

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  19. doggieschoice - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by doggieschoice Apr 16th, 2012 at 5:22AM

    Ask his another number, but if he didn't give it to you...
    Request to a telecommunication company for.......SIM BLOCK ...
    WAHAHAHA.....

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  20. fuqlife - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by fuqlife Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:29AM

    dump his *** watch him on maury when it comes to 1 year old ciara YOU R THE FATHER *background Ohhhhhhhh $%^&!

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  21. Ferranda - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Ferranda Apr 16th, 2012 at 2:11AM

    If only i trust him then i wont suspect anything

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