What do you do when a person tries to shun you?
i just remembered something in the past
it happened while i was still in college. i had quite a problem in my schedule so i couldn't attend my class so i had to take a make-up class where in a former friend of mine was present. Anyway when i got there almost everyone was asking why and then i explained the situation, while that was happening that former friend of mine was already backstabbing me and that he already had about 3/4 of the class against me
The other issue is that he gave me a nickname "Alien" so that is already a give away that he's purpose was to make me a pariah of some sort (he's also evidently talking about me while not letting me know what he is talking about and to top that he sometimes still act like a friend)
I was really tempted to act violent/ hostile but it would still be bad for my reputation
1. this guy is a people person & im not (he used that as an advantage -probably
2 if i acted hostile; he can use more of his friends against me
3 the remainder of the people in the class would hate me if ever i did something against him
4 if i did something i would act like some guy who needs anger management, some people may see me as the wrong one
i had a lot of experiences of shunning in the past (******** who makes rumors) the previous one was a lot worse but i think i would explode against the next guy who would do this to me.
EDIT: guys! i know that this happened in the past and i have moved on, its just that i am very lucky that i get to meet a lot of ******** in one lifetime and i can imagine that i would meet someone like this along the way again,
i'm asking for a right solution if hypothetically this happens again...