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What do you do when the only one can make you stop crying, is the one who made you cry?

What do you do when you're hurting and the only person that can stop that.. is the one that hurt you?
What do you do when you're in need of a hug.. but the only person you wanna hug is the one that made you in need of a hug in the first place..
Really, what do you do..
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You may think that it was this person who stopped you crying every time. But in all likelihood the person who actually got you straightened out and ended the tears was always... you. When we are overwhelmed, we have to cry. I honestly believe that we are -- each of us -- programmed to be our own best friend. Fortunately, we are also able to draw strength and comfort from other people (not necessarily only one person, although it may seem that way). HTH. Good luck.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 6:06AM
Grab a bottle and go to town.

Just kidding. Drinking just makes it worse.

First thing you have to do is figure out why your letting this happen. And you ARE letting it happen.

Then you get angry. Screw them! Screw them right in the damn ear! Make them choke on your f'ing tears! beat there door down and charge them with a Louisville. Make me cry? I'll give you reason to cry you stupid....Sry. Hope you laughed a little bit there. Cause that's really your only option.

The pain that the people you love inflicts upon you is the worst kind of emotional pain there is. And it doesn't go away. It doesn't fade. It will be with you until YOU decide it's time for it to go.

So what do you do...You get over it. Move on.

Or curl into an assball and cry for a few hours:)
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 6:10AM
depends..if its not his fault especially..i dont say anything,i just write,maybe in my diary or a poem..
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 6:15AM
I keep crying till I can't cry anymore. It may not change things, but holding it in doesn't either. I spend time with my animals as well. They always put a smile on my face even threw the tears:)
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 7:28AM
I depends on the situation and how badly that person hurt me. I think most of the time I would just go hug them and forgive them.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 7:40AM
thats a difficult one, theres nothing you can do, all you can is hope that day comes when it doesn't hurt you anymore.
try and keep yourself busy, surround yourself with friends family.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 8:13AM
andrewPenney is right! it hurts a lot though but in order to heal you have to embrace what he wrote.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 11:47AM
Had that with me yesterday--only I had to take care of it myself--felt so alone-so lost-every song I heard made me cry--fought heartbreaking emotions all day--then said "stop, you knew this was going to happen--and everything will work out one way or another.' I've lived, loved and lost before.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 6:01PM
You cry. That's what you do. When you're done crying, do something good for yourself. Eventually, you'll be able to tell yourself to stop crying. I'm learning how to do that.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 7:26PM
Cry and enjoy it.
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Posted Apr 18th, 2009 at 8:45PM
You understand that they cannot save you and let the pain out.
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