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btronx btronx 36-40, F 17 Answers Oct 7, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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I'm not trying to sound shallow because I'm nowhere near good looking to judge others but I don't think you can be in a relationship with someone if you're not attracted to them.

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Umm, I married someone once when I was in that situation. I didn't work out. I don't recommend doing that.

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if your useing them you should tell them, but again you might fall in love with them too, once you see what/who they really are inside, you may change how you feel about them.

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I'd ignore their appearance and treat them the same as I'd treat anyone else with their personality and who treated me well. If we happened to be compatible, then bonus, because a relationship might be in order.

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I think I am going through that same problem :( Idk what to do, if you find out do tell me though.

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make them a friend, but make sure they understand

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If there is no attraction, no "spark", I would be sure to let them know. They may be treating you really well because they believe there is a chance for more. I have personally found that relationships that have no "spark" die out fairly quickly. <br />
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Ask yourself this - Could I spend my life with this person and remain steadfast by their side if by chance I do happen to meet someone where there is strong instantaneous chemistry?

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Thanks. This makes sense to me

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if you aren't attracted to them, then you can't help it. but i would keep them close because it is always great to have someone like that.

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you be their friend but let them know that's how u feel.

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Enjoy the ride, but let the other person know your feelings

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Be grateful :)

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i would tell them up straight how i feel and make sure they know not to push it

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