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What do you do when you find out your lover is sending x rated pics to females do you confront or ignore?

Well I have been with this guy for nine years since I was sixteen and know I'm 25 with one kid and this isn't new to me we live together and had our ups and downs maybe he's tired of me ....

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    chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 May 1st, 2012 at 3:43PM

    It depends on how you feel about it. If you don't care then ignore.. if it bothers you then say something. You haven't said how you feel about it. Some people in certain types of relationships aren't threatened by stuff like that, but if you feel its a betrayal of trust or dishonest then I'd say confront. Me and my wife have an agreement, which hasn't always been followed... that if there is the slightest thought of that the other person might not be ok with something, then that is when to talk before doing it. For the sake of the relationship.

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6 Answers to "What do you do when you find out your lover is sending x rated pics to females do you confront or ignore?"

  1. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wigglebottom May 1st, 2012 at 3:44PM

    Depends on the relationship that you have with him / her. If your "Lover" is just a friend with benies then you don't have much to say about it. If your "Lover" lives in your home and you share the bills and all then yes you can say, Hey what's up with this? If your "Lover" is your spouse then you really have a right to say something.

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  2. energeez - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by energeez May 1st, 2012 at 3:41PM

    you let him catch you looking at **** pics sent to you by other men.

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  3. expo67 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by expo67 May 1st, 2012 at 3:45PM

    Why waste time confronting him? It's unlikely he'll change. Dump him.

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  4. dejaentendu90 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by dejaentendu90 May 1st, 2012 at 3:42PM

    Confront, of course.

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  5. deeken - 36-40 years old

    Posted by deeken May 1st, 2012 at 3:41PM

    I'd say you'd have to confront. That means his mind isn't on you. He's fantasizing about other women. He can't be all the way there for you if he's fooling around with them like that.

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