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What do you do when your best friend like you and you don't feel the same way?

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    Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa Jul 15th, 2012 at 2:17PM

    "You're my best friend, and I love you. But not in a romantic way. I'm sorry if that hurts you in any way, because hurting you is the last thing I'd ever want to do. Can you accept my feelings as they are and value me as a friend only?"

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  1. SunnySmile - female

    Reply by SunnySmile Jul 15th, 2012 at 2:22PM

    Very wise words. Its always better to talk it out and set things straight instead of leading on by not saying anything at all.

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  2. bluefirefly - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by bluefirefly Jul 15th, 2012 at 2:32PM

    thank-you so much.

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4 Answers to "What do you do when your best friend like you and you don't feel the same way?"

  1. erin1982 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by erin1982 Jul 15th, 2012 at 2:14PM

    Let him/her know somehow so it doesn't spoil your friendship it's tricky though

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  2. allaroundconfused - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by allaroundconfused Jul 15th, 2012 at 3:34PM

    well im going through the same thing with my best friend. At first I was confused and mad at the same time because I felt things wouldnt be the same anymore. we went from spending almost every second together to me avoiding him altogether. I finally grew the courage to talk to him and tell him how I felt about it. So i told him I didnt see him the same way he sees me. I told him I love him but in a brotherly way. I told him he would find someone who will love him in the way he loves me. I told him I dont anything to change between us. I just want things to stay the way they were before. I told him I hope he understands and forgives me for not feeling the same way. to my surprise he understood and we are still really close.

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  3. lobezno - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by lobezno Jul 15th, 2012 at 2:31PM

    apparently with the way I was treated... treat them like ****

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